I've seen so many people put up statuses saying 'They will judge you no matter what' and this particular line has made me upset so many times. Of course, I too know that people judge, that's human nature. You see somebody wear branded clothes, you think they are rich and they live in a palace, maybe after all they live in a normal house. You see somebody wear short clothes and think maybe she is the 'outgoing type' or the 'slutty type', maybe she's an NRI, you never know.
And then, there are some people who put up statuses saying 'I don't care if they judge me', of course you care. If you don't really care you wouldn't be telling it to the world, there would be no necessity. I accept that people judge you,even if you cover your face completely. They'll think that you're a very closed person and socially very weak whereas you might be covering only because its sunny outside.
I have personally observed something, what people show outside is what their inner character is too, some where deep inside a part of it will be lying there along with them. This theory doesn't always have to prove right nor does it prove that they are a bad person. What you do makes you bad or good. And what you do is based on your surroundings and the circumstances that you go through. We all want to look good in front of others, and that is basically everything that we care about. If they're judging you for who you are, why does it affect you? If you're trying to impersonate someone and are not being yourself, that's when what others think will even matter to you. There is always a difference between 'I don't care' and 'It doesn't matter to me'. But even then, since we are all human beings what others say definitely matter to us, but when they judge you, it doesn't hurt you or bother you because that is how you are and you truly accept it. Having self-respect is one more important aspect when it comes to being judged.What you show outside to the world maybe isn't your true nature,but I believe in one thing, you can't show something outside without actually being that kind of a person deep down in your heart. Now that doesn't make you a bad person, it's just a theory that I've made after many experiences. So, what I want to say is, if you are happy with who you are don't be afraid that they're going to judge you, just for a minute think and see, the people who judge you are going to be judged too. So just laugh and let it go. If you are confident with who you are, they won't bother you.
DISCLAIMER: This is only my opinion. I've not tried to state anything over here. If you think it's true, good enough, I'm glad I was able to help you. If not, never mind, you can live your life the way you want.
And then, there are some people who put up statuses saying 'I don't care if they judge me', of course you care. If you don't really care you wouldn't be telling it to the world, there would be no necessity. I accept that people judge you,even if you cover your face completely. They'll think that you're a very closed person and socially very weak whereas you might be covering only because its sunny outside.
I have personally observed something, what people show outside is what their inner character is too, some where deep inside a part of it will be lying there along with them. This theory doesn't always have to prove right nor does it prove that they are a bad person. What you do makes you bad or good. And what you do is based on your surroundings and the circumstances that you go through. We all want to look good in front of others, and that is basically everything that we care about. If they're judging you for who you are, why does it affect you? If you're trying to impersonate someone and are not being yourself, that's when what others think will even matter to you. There is always a difference between 'I don't care' and 'It doesn't matter to me'. But even then, since we are all human beings what others say definitely matter to us, but when they judge you, it doesn't hurt you or bother you because that is how you are and you truly accept it. Having self-respect is one more important aspect when it comes to being judged.What you show outside to the world maybe isn't your true nature,but I believe in one thing, you can't show something outside without actually being that kind of a person deep down in your heart. Now that doesn't make you a bad person, it's just a theory that I've made after many experiences. So, what I want to say is, if you are happy with who you are don't be afraid that they're going to judge you, just for a minute think and see, the people who judge you are going to be judged too. So just laugh and let it go. If you are confident with who you are, they won't bother you.
DISCLAIMER: This is only my opinion. I've not tried to state anything over here. If you think it's true, good enough, I'm glad I was able to help you. If not, never mind, you can live your life the way you want.
