Note To Every Girl

If you're a girl who's reading this, Hello. Let's talk about how our lives are. If you are a boy then, Welcome to 'understand' the world of girls.

Most of the time I hear men say, 'Women are complicated'. Do you exactly know what complication means? You don't. Let me tell you why. When you are back home late, and your girl is mad at you, you might try to convince her like say, twice? Thrice? By the 4th time you've now set your mind to 'Damn, this girl won't get convinced, no point trying', but actually all that you would've been doing is trying to distract her from asking why you were late or you were just trying to escape from answering her question. And you expect the girl to be okay with it? This is where men use the world 'complication' most of the time. Not blaming men, now calm down.
Off to A Note To Every Girl.

Dear Girls,
Everyday we go through so much. Not that men go through anything, any less. We go through things that often can't be explained to others. Leave aside periods, there are so many other things that can't be explained. Even though we tend to express our feelings, we all have a part of our souls with secrets. Whether you're in a relationship or not, continue reading this. We often surround ourself thinking that men make our lives. Yes, they do. They do contribute a huge part in our life, but only if you choose the right one. At 16 or 17, we don't really know what do with our future. All we want to do is score decent marks in our final exams, join a nice college, find some good friends and stay happy. But we often neglect the last part, staying happy. 'Happiness begins with you', may be a cliché now, but it begins with you only when you've taken the right decision. Your right decision may not be good for others, but others don't matter, only you do. If you ever feel like you don't get respect, or you are not wanted, it's better to leave than to hold on to the person who's making you feel that way than waiting for them to change, because people don't change. By this I mean, in due course of time their behaviour might change, but not their in born character. So sometimes it's better to let go and wait and see what life has in store for you. But again, don't give up on something you love easily. Try harder, but don't let life swallow you and take you to its misery land.
We've all cried ourselves to sleep thinking about something or someone. Don't worry, you're not alone and you never will be. Keep telling yourself you want to be happy and with the right people, and eventually you'll see this happening. If you ever feel left out, read a book, write a story or pen down your feelings, it will make everything better. My beautiful girl, who's reading this, know that you're more than just being with a man who can't make you happy, you need no body but yourself to survive in this world. We're all together in this. There are billions out there who are going through the same emotions as you. So don't hurt yourself for anybody who's not worth it. Don't cry yourself to sleep for someone who doesn't have the courtesy to check on you. You're worth more than this. You're meant to be happy. Have an amazing day, beautiful.

Happy reading!
~Aadhya

Email: aadhyeah@gmail.com

Think flat

She was pretty sure she had seen it right. It was 12 am and she was supposed to be sleeping but she switched off the lights and sat on her bed,it was a breezy night and her body was covered in her favourite Mickey Mouse blanket and her Harry Potter book placed was on top of her pillow. She was engrossed into the book until she saw something move in front of her. She was pretty sure that someone had entered her room. She didn't dare take her blanket off her face but continued to sit and think of all the possibilities that might happen if she removed her blanket. She would first run and go into her parent's room and wake them up, tell them that she had seen somebody inside her room and would make them catch the thief. But what if before she got out of her room the thief catches her and kidnaps her and takes her away? What if she still escaped the thief and goes to her parents room? What if he hurts her parent's and they die? What will she be able to do if there are no adults to help her? She's only 11. She won't be able to carry the glass vase that was kept beside her parents' bed nor would she be able to carry the wooden blocks kept for decor on their wall. All that she could do was scream. Scream till her neighbours heard her. Scream till they come to help her and call the police. But what if the thief shuts her mouth with a cloth dipped in some kind of medicine that will make her sleep? At that time she thought of every movie she had watched in her entire life and all that her brain could process was horrible images. It was already five minutes since she had seen the thief and she was sure enough that he was hiding behind the door as that was the only possible place where he could. By this time she was sweating. Sweat dripped on parts of the book. A few moments back she was reading how Harry meets Ron and Hermione for the first time on the train and now she's here, thinking about death and getting kidnapped. She had to do something until it became too late. She grabbed the night lamp she had along with her under her blanket and slowly lifted one end of it to see what was happening. From the tiny gap she could see her window and the beautiful night sky. She gazed at it for a moment before she realised that she was in deep trouble and this was no fairy tale. She leaped out of her bed and was ready to strike at anyone who came in front of her. Nothing happened. She took one step forward and reached the door. All that she find was a few clothes hanging behind. Before she could take another step, she tripped on something and fell flat on her face. She pulled herself up and switched on the light. She had tripped on her own t-shirt which had flew from the hanger and had fallen on the floor. Only then did she realise what a fool she was to assume that her tshirt was the thief all this while!

Assumption leads to destruction, overthinking too. 

Going in search of honey

We're ultimately in search of honey everyday. We wake up and we want it to be pleasant. We have a cup of coffee, we want it to be with the right amount of sugar. We change our clothes and we want that to be crisp and ironed. We leave to office/ school/ college and we want our transport to be intact. On the way to our destination we want to go through smooth roads and in no traffic lanes. Once we reach, we want our day to go splendid. We want our boss/ teacher to appreciate our work. Pass in a test and complete all the work given to us that day. Once we get back home we want to have a nice lunch/dinner, see the 'pretty' face of our mother and we want to have a good night's sleep. That's what we expect from a good day. Or at least we just pray not to get into any trouble that day. We're basically going in search of honey. We want our path, the people we meet, our work everything to be as sweet as honey. We want to appear good in front of others. We want others to give us compliments on our clothes, our new hair cut, our make up, just anything. Ultimately we're going in search of honey. Oh, and the next thing we look forward to is the 'perfect honey', that is a good partner to gossip with, a friend who would join us in not studying for the exam that is on the next day. A perfect person who will adapt to our way of living. Someone who says "I think you don't look nice in this outfit", becomes our enemy within seconds. There are so many people in this world who can't adapt to immediate changes in simple things. When you've planned your day so perfectly, there might be some changes that will take place due to external reasons, that doesn't mean you have the license to complain all day about that tiny change and abandon the rest of the plan. We can't accept a little sour honey, even for once.  Have you ever realised that going in search of 'the perfect honey', all you do is waste your time and keep complaining if you don't get what you want? It's time we understood one thing. We can change absolutely anything that happens to us. Even if there's a change in our plan, we should see the positive in that and just go along with it. Try making everything and everybody happy around you. Complain less, smile more.