Do we really have to move on?

There are many people who left our lives, with or without an actual reason and is it really necessary to 'move on'? After every break up I hear people say, I think it's time to move on. What do you mean by that? Force yourself to stop loving that person? Force yourself not to care about them? Force yourself to take them out of your mind? Do you think that's the right way to deal with life? You can distract your thoughts only for a short span of time. Those thoughts will keep coming back to you when your mind becomes ideal. So telling yourself to 'move on' will never work out. For either one of the person, it'll still be stuck like a leech within, that can't be removed. Sometimes ignorance, distraction, all of this can help you to get rid of your thoughts about a particular person, but most of the time making peace with them is the best solution. According to me, it's stupid to leave a person you love. No matter what the circumstances are, never ever leave the person you love the most only if you know they love you back. It'll all work out after a period of time. Giving up and moving on in such a situation will never give you a peace of mind. We always don't have to move on. You can cry thinking about that person, tell yourself as many times as possible that you miss them and you want them back. By doing this, you satisfy your thirst within rather than fighting back with it. As days go by your heart won't fight you, remind you, or make you cry anymore. It's time we understand something. If person goes from somebody's life, don't start telling them better people will come in, they don't want better people at that moment, they want their only person. Instead tell them they'll be back, it's not making a  false promise, it's satisfying their thirst externally. By satisfying their thirst you are actually helping them get back to normal. So it's basically not moving on, it's becoming normal all over again. Don't force yourself, let it loose, all your pieces will find its way back together. 

Disclaimer: These are only my thoughts, and it can truly be different for another person. 

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